Ginger Vee My Chronic Life

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My identical twin sister abused me for 39 years and I didn’t separate myself from her until she abandoned her only child for not “asking her if it was ok” that they were Trans. She got angry because she was not consulted for “permission” before her baby changed their pronouns to He/Him and changed their name to something she couldn’t even bother to remember.
I removed my parents from my life, completely, almost a year ago because they refused to acknowledge my nephews gender transformation or even his very existence. The final straw was on Christmas Day when I asked my mother (via our holiday phone call) if she’d talked to “Nephews new Name” and she responded with, “who’s that? Oh. you mean, ‘Dead Name’?” 😡😤😢
I was constantly getting in trouble & yelled at for not laughing at my dad’s racist jokes; literally my ENTIRE life I was bullied by my family for not being racist. We would actually leave places if people from certain countries showed up. 😳🤯
I guess the most blatant bigotry was raising us with the motto, “marry white, marry right”..🤬🥺 How atrocious is that?!!
If I didn’t laugh at a “dumb blonde” joke, he assumed that I just didn’t get it. No, It was the making jest of misogyny part that I didn’t understand.

I’ve officially hit my breaking point. I’m done with their hatred. I’m done with their wide baseless judgements, and awful, offensive jokes. I’ve extracted their poisonous negativity from my universe, and it’s been pretty remarkably rejuvenating for my soul.

I do my best to live in full authenticity and I thought I made my stance against bigotry, racism, homophobia, misogyny, and all hateful judgey bitchez pretty clear; I won’t stand for it. I realized today, however, that apparently, not everyone got that memo. For the record, I’m no longer afraid to lose friendships or relationships if I speak my truth and they react with hate. My convictions are paramount in me knowing myself and I must stick true to them. I’ve finally learned that the middle ground goes nowhere, and now that I’ve detoxed from my family, I’m progressing confidently in the left lane.
So, if you need a cheat sheet of who I am and the shit I won’t stand for, read on. Lines in the sand are being drawn. Which side will you be on?❤️💚💛🧡💜💗💙🌈💙❤️🧡💛💚💜💗

🔹 I will not tolerate hate. Not from my bigoted family or from anyone else.
🔹 I will not align my energy with those who carry hate within their heart, cast negative judgments, or make asinine assumptions about others.
🔹 I’m extracting hatred and judgment from my life entirely.
🔹 I will not debate hate. There’s nothing to discuss.
🔹 If you can’t respect a human person, I’m sure not gonna respect you or your opinion.
🔹 I have no space in my heart or my life to entertain or tolerate hate.
🔹A hateful heart tells me all I need to know about a person. I can give them grace to be themselves, while refusing to be a part of it, witness it, encourage it, or be around it.
🔹 I can hate hate without being hateful. Hatred is simply unacceptable, and I am aloud to dislike it and prevent it from entering my world while respecting your right to your opinions.
🔹 I combat hateful energy with love.
🔹I combat bigotry with acceptance.
🔹I combat ignorance with grace.
🔹I pity those who hate. They’re missing out on so much love.
🔹In hate, our world dies. In love, we thrive. 💗🕉💗 If you have hate in your heart or ignorance in your thoughts, I release you. I’ll be here, sending you grace & light from afar, but we will not be friends anymore.

~ Sever your ego & perhaps we’ll meet again. ~
Until then, I’ll pray for you.
I go in peace. 💗✌🏻💗