Breaking free from the grips of control and narcissism
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If they deflect, accuse you of insulting absurdities, don’t validate you or your needs, or call you names like “selfish” if you do communicate your needs, and they spit fire and assume..well, you must be being controlled someone, and that “someone” is causing your actions…fuck ’em! You don’t need their judgement or poisonous negativity. Stop trying to please them. Whatever you do, how much you do or have done, never matters; it’s never going to be good enough no matter how much effort you put forth. They will NEVER, ever! concede that you are valuable, capable, and worthy of living your truth. Unfortunately, they see your growth as an afront to them, but they don’t realize… THIS IS NOT ABOUT THEM. Life is never all about you, me, or anyone. If you tell them no, and they get upset, just remind them of your truth and say, “THIS ISN’T ABOUT YOU!” And get on wich’ur peace’filled life. You have nothing to prove. You do you, and have no shame. ☮️🕉️💜
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